My Love-Hate Relationship with Winter

I love the fall colors and the brisk winds and leaves swirling around my legs as I walk. I love, even more so, the cold of winter and the excuse to strike up a warming fire or to relax in the glow of warm candlelight.

This is a picture taken in the first couple years after we moved into our house in Washington, DC. A shot looking up at my cheery bedroom window from the snowy sidewalk, past the holly hedge with clumps of snow.
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An overcast February day of sailing on the Pacific coast of California.

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On a boat, it’s a bit different to be cold. I’m someone who likes to wear shoes without socks and goes without gloves throughout the winter. Not on the boat. Here, I must wear gloves early in the season, else when I grab onto the stainless steel of the main shrouds to pull myself aboard, the cold metal bites into my hands–ouch! The interface with the cold is very stark. The charthouse walls are thin and every morning there’s condensation on the inside of the glass from our breath, cooking, and all the boat living that goes on down below decks.

The condensation inside the charthouse during a December gale at anchor.

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The warming candlelight in the charthouse.
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The hot coals in the Shipmate’s firebox below.
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Resilience

David’s Aunt Suzie is 90 years old. She recently (just two weeks ago) had a heart attack and now sports a pace maker. One of the reasons we’re hanging out here in the Bay area is to be near Aunt Suzie. We never really had the chance to get to know her before. We’re amazed by her resilience time and again. After her heart attack, her social worker said that what has happened would have taken out a lesser woman–but not Aunt Suzie. With her positive attitude and outlook on life, we think she’ll be around a long, long time.

That reminds us of the quote that we put on the back of our boat cards. If you have one, turn it over and read:

“One can remain alive long past the usual date of disintegration if one
is unafraid of change, insatiable in intellectual curiosity, interested
in big things, and happy in small ways.”
–Edith Wharton

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